Let’s cut the bullshit.
 
You’re not here because you’re a bad person. You’re here because you’re in pain, and your pain is leaking all over the person you love most. You’re labeled "defensive," "avoidant," or an "asshole." You feel misunderstood, cornered, and like nothing you do is ever right. The harder you try, the worse it gets. The woman you love is either walking on eggshells or has one foot out the door. The connection you crave feels like a mirage.
 
Here is the truth most relationship guides are too soft to say:
 
Your behavior is sabotaging your relationship. But your behavior is not the root problem; it is a symptom.